So apparently no one blogs anymore.....
It was a breezy (and partly cloudy/cool) day today. A couple months ago we got Jadon a kite from Costco for like $12, and we've been waiting for the perfect weather to do it. Usually when its windy enough, its also raining, or its late at night and too dark to do so. Well, today we had the weather we've been waiting for, so we got the kite out and Derek flew it for Jadon. Although there were lots of crashes because the wind would die down suddenly..... It still made it into the air many times, and even crashed into the neighbors house once!
Here's some pictures:
I love this next one, Jadon looks like a dog with his tongue hanging down to his chin!
In other news, we've made a joint decision to postpone potty training. We've been at it for close to 2 months, and its just not working, and yes, I know that it takes time, but we've been thinking for a couple weeks now that he is just not ready. Sure, he loves wearing underwear, but he wants to be able to use them like a diaper. He refuses to tell us when he needs to pee... when we ask if he needs to pee, he says no, and then 20 minutes later we find that he has peed and just carried on as if nothings happened. We make him go sit on the potty alot, and its a huge battle, he fights and screams and protests, and he refuses to use his little potty and will only go in the big one.
We've tried everything. We've tried positive reinforcement, reward systems, and even negative reinforcement ("Jadon, if you wet your underwear today then you dont get to play Mario tomorrow"... that kind of thing.) Loading him up on liquids doesnt do a thing (just makes more laundry for me), restricting liquids doesnt either (just plugs him up.) He just doesnt care. And for the last couple of weeks he's just been peeing more and more in his underwear.
He's just not ready. Period.
I'm afraid he might not get to go to preschool this fall, we've only got 3 or so months left and the only progress we've made is getting him to like wearing underwear.
I know they say boys are often more difficult to train so I was fully prepared. And every kid is different, no matter what. At this point, I probably still wouldnt have even tried potty training if it werent for the fact that I want him to go to preschool in the fall.
Oh, and pullups are not an option, he just uses them as a diaper, and not like the "training pants" that they are supposed to be. To him, pullups are just a glorified diaper with one of his favorite characters, Lightning McQueen, on them.
So, we'll reevaluate in a few weeks or a month and see if he's ready then. If not, then everything I've researched and read and heard from other people has said just let the child do the initiating and when he is ready he'll let us know. Otherwise it just becomes a power struggle between parent and child.
So thats my vent on that! I'm not even going to get started on Avery's sleeping, its getting out of control and I now feel that I am chronically tired. We've got to somehow get her sleeping under control because i'm starting to feel like my life is completely out of control!
On a more happy, pleasant note ;) we went to Home Depot tonight and got some flowers and plants for me to plant, and i'm soooooo excited to jump into my "nothing box" and plant away!! (haha, only men have nothing boxes, but lately I feel like I need one too!!!) I'm refering to a really great marital video- Mark Gungor's "
Laugh your way to a better marriage." Derek and I watched it last summer (no, we are not having marital problems), and its a FANTASTIC seminar for ALL couples to watch, even if you're not having marital problems. Its also hilarious so its really easy to watch! I highly recommend it to all couples! Anyways, ive gotten completely off track, so I think i'll stop there!